Whether you’re here because you’re curious about the book, considering your own transition,or just want to watch someone figure it out in real time, welcome to the chaos.
This is where the messy middle lives.
I'm writing a book about leaving corporate, building a business that doesn't become another cage, and figuring out what happens when you choose your fire instead of letting it choose you.
These blogs are my real-time processing - the doubts, the breakthroughs, the ugly cries in Target, and everything I'm learning as I turn 19 chapters into something that might actually matter
If you're in your own messy middle - whether you're leaving something, building something, or just trying to figure out what the hell comes next - pull up a chair.
This is the unfiltered, unpolished, sometimes profane journey of becoming.
Foundation Work and Timeline Reality
This week was a reminder that nobody celebrates the unsexy foundation work—but it’s the only thing that keeps a dream from collapsing. From client processes to construction delays, I learned that building anything meaningful always takes longer than planned. The lesson? Progress isn’t about speed or polish, it’s about putting in the boring work that makes everything else possible.
The Manuscript That Sat in Digital Dust
After five months of paralysis, I finally reopened my manuscript. The breakthrough wasn’t in perfect outlines or expert advice—it was in ignoring the rules, starting messy, and rediscovering my own voice. Fifty-two minutes of raw, honest writing beat five months of overthinking.